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Ive had to give up. Now im just forced to pay my ex to continue abusing my minor children in every way known to man including SA. I have some proof but no one cares to stop him. Soooooo... Pf course my rx is constantly trying to scam, lie, etc to steal more money and also tries to steal property from me, wheeler I have what he alleges or not, doesn't matter. He still drags me to court repeatedly in rapid succession to get more.

Yes my life been better since narcissist gone

Dwayne!!!!! The king

I have gone no cintact just over a year and i still feek stuck i get on witb my life neeo buay but they are on my mind 24 7 !,£ my emotions r all over the place , past few month i stsrted having dreams about them like i was being hunted by them , them talking to me nd visiting me in my dreams , am i going kinda mad ??? Please help

You are correct .

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My ex is doing well and his current partner is wonderful for him and I cannot fault her she is beautiful, talented, sociable and of course younger! And although I am so happy for him and I know we were not a good match our expectations are incompatible it hurts and I cannot figure out why and it has left me very empty

Most of the people have believed the lies of the abusers/bullies and joined in the bullying. These people are really evil but have this charm to fool everyone. Theg really believe their own lies thinking they're good and others bad and deserving of all this mistreatment.

Why is it called Narcissist? I am working with Permissive parenting and Authoritative opposites . One has boundaries one doesn't ...

Very helpful thank you

I started this today after getting a triggering text looking for narcisstic supply from my ex yesterday. This is so much needed, thank you for this concise framework.

Im scared that being unscaved by their abuse and making rational decisions I would become a narcissist because of longterm endurance. I was born with the nature of a hsp and btw, this is a parent who is doing this to me. Will I become a narcissist if I absolutely careless about her and what she do to me and remain unemotional while rationally planning my way of escape?

I thought because my daughters witnessed quite a bit, I could discuss with 2 oldest. Bad idea, they are father starved and all I can say is 33 year no change for me, but if there’s hope maybe he will for his daughters!🤔🤪

Thank you for giving me good advice 🙏

Yup, happens to me all the time. They never do anything nice unless they are trying to convince THEMSELVES that they are nice.

She just started calling cps today i got the false DV and emergency ex parte dismissed. Now shes stepping it up. I hope this doesn't go to far but im not going to ever quit fighting for my child.

This lady doesn't seem to operate out of realistic behavior we supposed to pacify the child how is this parenting this sounds more like compromising than parenting is it just me

false allegations against me led to my having a mental breakdown, since nobody believed me, even when I showed them evidence. Even when the mother admitted she lied, the court didn't care. Then my mental breakdown was used against me. I would guess most people going up against this simply lose, because it's too expensive and too time consuming.

the only people in my town that dislike me are fake/dumb/egotistical/manipulative/not good people. i'm a truth-teller. creeps will never like me.

the narc can keep their dumb, creepy friends.

i think, legit- the narc tried to scare me out of town. nope. still here. still not crazy.

For me it's just been one thing after another day after day, week after week!! No Victories what so ever!!!...Sometimes I wonder why I even bother getting up in the mornings!!

Everyone's a narcissist

Repeating the same thing all over again is called the Definition of Insanity.

Guess it’s a common thing people do. What saddens me is when this is over, I will never have any kind of relationship with her again. She doesn’t even know she’s doing it. Hurts to know how they talk about you to their friends. So sad. I pray.

Never ever contact a narcissist!!

My Son is going through this 😢

Ha!!! Cute cute cute all strings.... ALL... unfortunately it only ends when you go to THE MOON....

Do u do private councilling Dwayne ?

I've had "9" False CPS investigations!! I've had approx 4 false Police Reports. I was even arrested & jailed!! MORTIFYING!! The opposition is a malignant narcissist psychopath with "legit" pedophile tendencies!! I'm a longstanding prey & target of Post IPV. . If you ever wanna cover the failure, corruption, & oppression of the DV Industry; my daughter was legally kidnapped & estranged from me now 3.5 Years!!! I fled DV, it followed me and has robbed me of my motherhood & my kids their childhoods for 13 Years!! Opposition is a 2x prison stayed violent felon!! 🤔 I have an expert DV, Coercive Control, with Lethality assessment & it's indicative of myself, my adopted son (who's still with me), & my little to all be HIGH RISK for Fatality!! No one even bats an eye!! The State is coming for me AGAIN! Threats of jail & coercion for Child support of my kidnapped daughter!!! It's all akin to state sanctioned torture!! CPTSD&MeXs3!!

OK I live in nz and I am transgender and have lost my child through false allegations and thorough the narcissist behaviour of x partner I was jailed for 3 months, and finally after a year finally get to tell my side in August 24.

Hello. Thank you for the video.

to anyone experiencing this . may our sons be blessed to leave the relationship unharmed, wiser and happier 🙏🙌❤

You are always wrong, nothing is ever good enough, you are lied to, make you feel inadequate, triangulated, called "crazy, insecure and paranoid", lose yourself and dignity.😢

I think we don’t need your opinion

In the middle of this right now barely holding on with a 1 year old and no family or friends. I'm genuinely losing my mind and about to give up any day now. I lash out all the time and cannot control it anymore I'm so chronically stressed and depressed

Yes….it’s a moment in time….im taking my life back…..and you do everything you can to do this…..it took me yrs from npd sister, but I’ve finally turned a huge corner

I survived a snake bite . I will never for get it all most died

I inadvertently started doing this on my own but she messaged again when she saw my friend at work. Which led me to this video. This really helped reinforce my opinion. However what are yhe best steps moving forward? Is it truly completely cutting them off or ignoring them?

It is worse when the spouse alienates you as well and defends their child's behavior in your own home and life then accuses you while at the same time the ex is verbally abusing you. You feel all alone like you're in someone else's nightmare and ostracized from what was meant to be your family. The people you took on baggage for and sacrifice for turn against you because blood is thicker than water and you get cut from the team first.

First, I don’t understand why Caleb’s other children are not his concern. Very sketchy.

It’s a spiritual problem theses are traits of demons. Literally. Control manipulations deception gaslighting

It’s more then NPD they are SOCIOPATHS

Theses people can be professionals, this happened to me with a police officer. I’ve cut sooo many family and persons that are so vile and are bullies.

Theses people can be professionals, this happened to me with a police officer.

A man at church that liked me came up to me Up to literally my eye like eye ball to eyeball and said something flirtatious He’s nuts, he is a law enforcement officer. Creeped me out! Weirdo Stared!!!

I came out of a 5 year abusive relationship in 2011. I recently met someone new who became abisive very quickly. I walked away immediately. The problem I have now is that the most recent interaction seems to have taken my psyche right back to 2011. It has triggered the bad memories. This is despite years of therapy. Any advice would be welcome

I'm going through this at the moment. An ex from ten years ago, yes, ten years ago, has taken to Twitter to label me a narcissist and an abuser. This follows my reaching out to her before releasing a book about my time in psychiatric care, which mentions our past relationship a few times. Even though she was anonymised, she threatened a libel case because I dared to suggest that she was abusive while we were together. I agreed to edit those sections out to keep the peace, even though they were fine, true, and there were no grounds for a libel case. I thought that would be the end of it, but, no, unfortunately she keeps finding other issues besides the book. The book seems to have been the catalyst, but now it's about not recognising her trauma, or not admitting to being abusive. She has publically alleged that I subjected her to coercive control, emotional and sexual abuse, and more. Meanwhile, I'm living a happy life with my wife and toddler, enjoying my career, etc. and I think that's what this is really about. She's become aware of me again and is enraged that I'm happy. I'm just ignoring it completely. It's the only way. These people are like fire. They need fuel, heat, and oxygen. Deprive them of any of these and they burn out.

"This man does not need these children on a regular basis." And no one pays attention to why she's saying THAT. Perhaps THAT is the reason Parker couldn't make his own choice. Mom makes him do laundry, do chores, man up while dad let's him do anything. Duh. 14 year old might choose the one that let's him use drugs. Mom says no & she's "crazy." Most watching are the crazies. Those siding with Caleb are crazy. Mom is alone trying to keep her family right. Has anyone else here looked at Caleb's other social media content?! He tries to destroy careers, he threatens, he trashes his ex and her new family for 10 years, he doesn't pay child support, he brags about his use of acid and hallucinogenic mushrooms, his content is gross and over sexualized, he has no emotional, financial, spiritual, or any stability at all. Why does he continue to use his family as click bait? ALL this and no one blinks an eye or holds him accountable. He's the victim hero after watching his own perception of being abused for a few seconds. If anyone had any REAL discernment, they'd see right through him. I've been following this for a couple of years. Caleb is not someone kids need to live with. He had visitation. No one was keeping them from him. The real man thing to do would have been to admit it. Give his kids his best and let them grow up in the discipline and stability their mother tried to create. Instead, he tried to destroy it, and it appears he doesn't see or communicate much or very well with his children, currently. The best advice Caleb could have gotten to have healthy relationships with his kids, would have been to remove them from social media, stop being bitter, and actually commend their mother. He should have told them to honor her and they could run their household their way when they were grown. Instead it's okay for Parker to roll the window up on his mother's arm. I can see Parker being the one physically abusing his mother. He exhibits defiant disorder behavior. Dad encourages it and enjoys Parker getting by with it because he can't legally, but Parker can. No wonder the mom & step dad are frustrated. It's called reactive abuse. Caleb is the one at fault entirely and is guilty of alienating Parker.

Yeah but we share a child together.